Help from other Christians? Can God reveal to you the one you're meant to be with at a young age?

Okay, well this is a really long story. But I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old, and almost two years ago I met this guy who is 3 years older than me. He is a Christian and he plays drums in the worship band at my youth camp. At first I just thought he was really nice and then... I started having really strong feelings for him. I normally like a guy when I think they're really hot haha.. but I don't think he is the best looking guy I've ever seen.. even though I do like the looks of him. But I'm just so inlove with his personality.. we live about 2 hours away from each other and I havn't talked to him in a while... our families go waaay back, his great grandma and my great grandma were like best friends, and I live in the same town as his grandma and I'm really close to her, so it's kinda weird, almost like it's really meant to be.. but anyways.. I always tell myself to just move on and forget about him because I'm afraid of getting my hopes up and being hurt. As soon as I finally "get over him", the next time I see him I just fall completely inlove again and it's SO hard for me to talk to him.. I'm always scared he doesn't take me seriously and that I'm just some little 16 year old to him. He's turning 19 next month.... I don't know, it just really feels like God is trying to tell me something... It feels like he is really the right guy for me and we have SO much in common.. and I care sooooo much about him... and he doesn't even know it.. Could someone help me out here? Give me some advice, or tell me WHAT these feelings might exactly be..? I know for a fact it isn't just an infatuation because like I said, it's been almost 2 years... thank so so much in advance.